Friday, February 17, 2012

Read your Bible!!

 


Why is this such a hard thing for me?  This and quiet time!  Every day I get up in intending to start my day this way.  So I am going to stop doing this and go do that.


I know for sure that a relationship with God is the best thing that you can do...why is it that I can't do it?  I am really good at learning about God from others.  I love listening to Joyce Meyer when I walk in the mornings.  I read bible study books.  But I know that there is huge rewards with time spent in the Word, being still and quiet just listening and journaling.

Happy Friday!  Hope y'all have a great Friday and weekend.  We have a group from FCA coming tomorrow along with Mike's boss so things will be a little crazy around here, so I will post as much as I can.  Then next Wednesday my Mom is coming, can't wait!!  Next Tuesday I officially turn the BIG 4-0!!


In His Grip (and His Word),
Jodi

Thursday, February 16, 2012

This is how we do it...in the DR {entrepreneurs}

There are a lot of entrepreneurs in the DR.  If you define an entrepreneur as someone who works for themselves then this is what you will find.  As I watch this all unfold in my daily life I often think that this is the Dominican version of an infomercial.


The men and boys who wash your windshield when you stop at the traffic light.  


The ladies who sell you a cold bottle of water or a snack while you wait for the light to turn green.  


The ladies on the beach who want to braid your hair, give you a massage, or mani/pedi.


The beach vendors that want to sell you sunglasses, wood carvings, jewelry, blow up beach toys, or paintings.


The butcher whose shop is attached to the front of his house.  


The hairdresser who has a salon in front of her house.  


The phone charger salesman who walks up to your car while you wait at the light.  


The motorcycle taxi drivers that congregate in the neighborhoods to give someone a lift. 


The guy who takes off your windshield wipers and replaces them for you when you have no time to tell him to stop or take them back off because you don't even know if they are new or used and don't have time to reject them because the light is now green and then you pull over to argue with him that you don't need or want them or that they are too expensive and then just give up and pay him for them just to have them break the very next day.  


See what I mean in this video


After working in corporate America I know that my heart is made to be an entrepreneur.  I want to work for myself.  I understand the feeling of being in control of your own destiny.  For these people they will do whatever it takes to bring home money to feed their families.  It is survival.

In His Grip,
Jodi




Wednesday, February 15, 2012

I am back!!


So I flew to Atlanta last Wednesday night and got to spend time with friends eating and laughing and talking and crying and just having a blast!


5 of us went to Blue Ridge, GA and spent Friday night until Sunday afternoon in an amazing house on top of a mountain.  Here was our view......




It is important to sometimes get away, recharge your batteries, refill your teacup so you can be a better person.  Change of perspective is usually a good thing.  I do know as fun as it was, as much yummy Mexican food as I ate, as easy as it was to find anything I needed, and as good as it was to visit the familiar of my old life.  I love it here!  I came home to my dogs and they happily pranced over to tell me they missed me.  My kids faces when they got off the bus and the hugs were great.  My husband's hug as we dashed through the raindrops and busyness of the crowded airport was comforting.  I was home!  I missed this place, and that is a good thing.


In His Grip,
Jodi

Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Taking a few days off!!

OK y'all, I am going to be taking a few days off of the blog.  I head to GA tomorrow and I am celebrating with some lovely ladies in a cabin in Blue Ridge!  On Feb 21st I turn the BIG 4-0, so we are celebrating a little early.  This picture was last winter so I don't know that we will have snow this year, but looking forward to some "girl time"!!


So I will be back on Monday, so look out for some deep thoughts and rested soul when I return!!

Love y'all who read and thanks for the comments!!


In His Grip,

Jodi

Monday, February 6, 2012

OK, so the Pats lost the Super Bowl so we are a little bummed in our house.  But football season is over and there is a mere 2 weeks until pitchers and catchers report to Spring Training.  So I guess I get a 2 week vacation until the next sport :)


I read about the power of words this morning and I am immediately reminded of The Help and the power of 3 simple statements.  I am thankful for the reminder and will look to lift up vs. nit picking behavior that tears down a little soul.




Click Here for the iMom post from today "Whose Voice Do Your Children Hear?


Lord there are days where all I can find are the wrong things.  Thank you for pricking my heart and putting this article in front of me today.  Give me a heart to find the good in my children and to lift them up.  Create in me a loving attitude that finds the best in my children and everyone.  Amen


In His Grip,
Jodi

Saturday, February 4, 2012

Love is life's motivator

If you have ever been to a wedding I am sure you are familair with 1 Corinthians 13.  I was reading through my Love Dare Day by Day Devotional and it asked me to read these verses but then to take part of them and add my name.  It makes it much more personal, more convicting, more real.  I often read The Message version of the Bible and I think in these particular verses it is a fresh look at  what we hear a lot.


1 Corinthians 13:1-13
1 If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don't love, I'm nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate.
2 If I speak God's Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, "Jump," and it jumps, but I don't love, I'm nothing.
3 If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don't love, I've gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I'm bankrupt without love.
4 Jodi never gives up. Jodi cares more for others than for self. Jodi doesn't want what she doesn't have. Jodi doesn't strut, Jodi doesn't have a swelled head,5 Jodi doesn't force herself on others, Jodi isn't always "me first," Jodi doesn't fly off the handle, Jodi doesn't keep score of the sins of others,6 Jodi doesn't revel when others grovel, Jodi takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,7 Jodi puts up with anything, Jodi trusts God always, Jodi always looks for the best, Jodi never looks back, But Jodi keeps going to the end.
8 Love never dies. Inspired speech will be over some day; praying in tongues will end; understanding will reach its limit.9 We know only a portion of the truth, and what we say about God is always incomplete.10 But when the Complete arrives, our incompletes will be canceled.
11 When I was an infant at my mother's breast, I gurgled and cooed like any infant. When I grew up, I left those infant ways for good.
12 We don't yet see things clearly. We're squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won't be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We'll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!
13 But for right now, until that completeness, we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: Trust steadily in God, hope unswervingly, love extravagantly. And the best of the three is love.


Wow I have some work to do. My  prayer:  Lord fill me with your Holy Spirit, let His words be my words and remove anything that is of me and make me more like Him. Amen






In His Grip,
Jodi

Friday, February 3, 2012

So how much will it take to get you off the streets?

Last night I went on my first outreach to share the Gospel of Jesus Christ with the prostitutes of Juan Dolio.  I went with Erica Jude who heads up Women's Ministry with Score International.  She runs a home called the Lily House where former prostitutes can make money by learning how to sew, make jewelry, or do laundry.  Their kids come with them to the Lily House and are watched upstairs while they work downstairs.  On Thursday nights the ladies (there were 6 of us last night) hit the streets hoping to get a few minutes with these ladies, give them a tract (explaining the Gospel) and a contact number, in hopes that the girls will contact them for lunch, then maybe church, and most importantly that they know the TRUTH of the Gospel and it will set them free.

I met Erica at SCORE at 8:30 and we picked up a friend of hers from the church who loves to help, and then proceeded to pick up 3 other young ladies.  We drove through Juan Dolio, parked and got out.  3 of us went one way, the rest the other way.  It appeared to be a slow night.  They saw some ladies that they knew but they don't go into the bars or approach girls that are with a client.  They see the same girls most of the time, but there have been some new girls lately.  There are also a lot of men this time of year.  Europeans flock to the DR in Jan and Feb and it is also high tourist season in general.  After checking out the area near the beach in Juan Dolio we headed over near the Barcelo Hotel and found a woman sitting right on the edge of a nightclub that wasn't filled with people yet.

Erica and the other girls knew her.  They had talked to her before.  They talk to them as many times as it takes.  Some of the girls mention the tracts they have in their purses that they were given sometimes as long as 2 years ago.  Sometimes it takes a long time.  Sometimes they never get out from under the grip of this dark profession.  But they still try....and try.....and pray and hope that they if they hit rock bottom they will remember that they have a safe place to go for help.  I think her name was Lisa.  I am not sure how old she was, but she looked maybe mid 30 to late 30's.  She had on a short dress with a zipper and it was zipped low.  She had black high heels on.  She had short black hair and some sparkly eye shadow.  She looked beautiful when she smiled.  Glossy lips revealed beautiful white teeth and sparkly eyes.  The rest of the girls left and Erica and I stayed with her.  Erica asked if I wanted to share my testimony with her and I was afraid, I didn't know what to say, I told her I need to plan out what I wanted to say.  I should have just shared straight from my heart.  I should have just told her how I wasn't too proud of my past.  I had sex too young and before marriage.  I had regrets....many....but I knew the love of Christ and He loved me anyways even in my shame about my past.  When I accepted Christ about 10 years ago I couldn't imagine that God would love me and my past.  I was actually scared I would start crying (like I am now writing this) and wouldn't get out the words.  Erica would be translating so at least it would be in English.  Not many people know my true story, my past, my regrets...but I feel God calling me to share them because I can possibly minister to these ladies.  I am just not ready.  Maybe next time.

Erica handed her a tract and she ran her fingers over it as Erica spoke.  She fidgeted in her seat.  I could see she was uncomfortable.  She shook her head, and agreed with what Erica shared with her.  She knows the Gospel she has heard it before.  But she can't stop because she has debts.  I don't know if she has children, but I assume she does.  She may even have a husband, but probably not.  Her children may even be locked in her house alone as she sits here with us.  This breaks my heart.  What if the house caught fire and the kids couldn't get out?  I know with prostitution there is a whole cycle of damage that can occur.  I couldn't stop thinking this morning "How much is your debt?"  "What amount will it take for me to get you off the streets?"  I want to know because I just want to save her.  I know I can't but my heart breaks for these women.  There is a better way!  And just throwing money at them isn't the answer.  But it keeps them locked in shackles by the devil who wants their soul and I hate that!  So I can only pray for Lisa that she will have the faith that IF she leaves the streets the God WILL provide for her and it will all work out.  Lisa cried a few times while Erica talked to her.  I prayed while Erica talked that the Holy Spirit would prick her heart, that HIS love and light would blind the evil one.  I pray now that she will see that a life outside of prostitution and walking with the Lord is much more rewarding.  That she will trust HIM and stop worrying about her debts.  Although she won't be able to buy the lotions and perfumes and pretty shoes, she will be free of the shackles and out of danger and in the loving arms of a God who makes the impossible possible!

Whenever I hear this song I think of these women, I think of myself and I know that MY God is singing it to me!


In His Grip,
Jodi

Thursday, February 2, 2012

This is how we do it....in the DR {Grocery Shopping}


OK, so Mike's birthday was last week.  He was out of town but when he got back I wanted to surprise him with his favorite, carrot cake.  Well, I didn't realize what an undertaking this would be.



1.  Our local Ole supermarket didn't have carrots.  I can't imagine any store in the states not having carrots.
2.  I couldn't find baking soda.
3.  My oven doesn't work, so I had to bake it at my neighbor's house
4.  No powdered sugar to be found at the local Ole
5.  No fancy powered food processor to shred the carrots, so I had to get one of the old fashioned 4 sided graters and hope I only grated the carrots.

So the day he came home I ventured out to look for my final ingredients. I was tempted to visit Savino in the kitchen over at the Highlands, surely he had what I would need (maybe not the powdered sugar).  It was a holiday here so I thought he might not even be there.  I headed into downtown Boca Chica.  I knew of a little fruit and veggie stand and maybe they would have carrots.  So I get there and there are some small shriveled up carrots with gnats all over them.  One of the workers assured me that they were coming.  Or at least that is what I thought he said by watching his body language as he pointed to the SUV that had just pulled up filled to the gills with fresh produce.  So I waited.  This was what I was looking at while I waited.  I even get skeeved out by the packaged chicken in the store here that is refrigerated, but this REALLY skeeved me out.  Are we just super sensitive in the states about temperature of meat and where we store it?  I am not sure, but I know I can barely get past the feet....yuck!


While I was waiting I walked next door to the little store.  They call them colmados.  They are pretty small, sometimes attached to someone's house.  You can buy all sorts of staples there.  So I headed over with my sheet of paper with some google translated words and a photo from my cell phone of baking soda.  The young man behind the counter reaches down under one of the shelving units and pulls out a box with all sorts of packets in it and hands me bicarbonato, which I think is what I need.  Then he asks me how much.  Well I needed 2 teaspoons full so I asked for 3 packets hoping that was enough.  The label says God's Blessing in Spanish, super!  Then I hoped I didn't get pulled over and and arrested for drug possession.  Thankfully each packet was 1 teaspoon, so I have one teaspoon left over for another day!


As I made my way back to the fruit and veggie stand they handed me the bag of carrots.  The biggest carrots I have ever seen!!  Now the bananas are a little on the small side, but still!!

So I returned pretty proud of myself that I got what I needed.  The kids helped me and Noemi watched.  I never did find confectioner's sugar but I bought a jar of white frosting and just added cream cheese to it.  If I had the time to venture to San Pedro or to Santo Domingo I would probably find it.  I didn't want to risk all that time and not find the sugar.  The frosting turned out pretty good.  I even had electric beaters to use to mix it.  Cream cheese is also pretty readily available here.

So grocery shopping has been challenging for me here.  We have an Ole grocery store pretty close by.  It is limited to what sells so there is a whole isle dedicated to rice and oil and powdered milk.  I don't eat many carbs (my body sleeps after carbs instead of being fueled) so it is challenging for me to find my normal staples.  You can buy boneless, skinless chicken but sometimes it looks yucky.  It always smells yucky to me, but it seems to be the packaging.  Once the plastic wrapper is removed and the chicken is rinsed the smell goes away.  I haven't really found a great place for meat.  So we just see what we can find, cook a ton of it and freeze it for future use.  We eat chicken salad for lunch most days, so we cut it up before we freeze it to have it ready when needed (we eat it without bread).

When we go to church in Santo Domingo we usually do our shopping there.  There is a store called Pricemart and it is like a BJ's or Sam's.  It is expensive, but you can get many things there that we are used to using.  Food in general is probably double the cost of what I spent in the states.  This in part is because of what our family likes to eat.  Dominicans can make a little go a long way and eat a ton of rice.  When we first got here I was eating what they ate and couldn't understand why I was so lethargic and tired all the time.  When the groups left and we weren't eating at the cafeteria at the Highlands and I was cooking for myself I figured out the problem.  Two summers ago when we came for the 10 day mission trip, I swore that I ate more carbs in that week than I had eaten in my whole life prior to that (pasta, rice, potatoes).  Carbs are cheap, but my body doesn't like them that much.  

The crazyest things I have seen here food wise are as follows:

1.  Eggs are not refrigerated, they come like this.  If you google eggs you will find that if you don't remove the bloom then they don't need to be refrigerated.  In the states we process them so much that it washes off that coating that keeps them fresher longer.  So I keep mine out on my counter, and don't bother taking up room in the fridge.  I do want to see if I can find an egg tree to store them.


2.  Milk is powdered and you mix it with water and store it in a container in the fridge, or make it as needed if you don't have refrigeration.

3.  Rice is sold in bulk in a big wooden box in the produce section.  The first time I noticed this a woman was running her hands through the rice as she was waiting to get some stuff weighed.  That along with it being open to the air where dust and who knows what could get in skeeved me out.  So I just buy my rice bagged.  I miss my 10 min boil in the bag rice.  I haven't mastered cooking rice yet.  I just let my friend Noemi make it for me :)

4.  In the frozen food section you can buy chicken nuggets and fries and other fried things in bulk, loose packed and also open to the air in a freezer case.  Yuck!

5.  In the small neighborhoods they have "butcher shops" and you see cuts of meat hanging from an open air store with no refrigeration.  No thanks.  You will usually find a dog sitting right in front licking his chops awaiting a free hand out.  Two summers ago I did see a house with a cow head hanging outside signaling to everyone that he had some beef for sale.  Sorry I didn't get a picture :)

6.  You may see someone on a motorcycle riding down by the beach holding up a fish for sale, again no refrigeration.  I was told check the eyes, if they are clear, it is safe.  You also see people on the side of the highway selling lobsters and fish.  The highway is right along the ocean so they could be pretty fresh.

7.  In the capital you can find many things we use in the states.  I can't find ranch dip which is a staple, guacamole dip packets, or canned chicken (I hear you can sometimes find this but I never have).  I finally found cottage cheese which is good because Grace loves it.

8.  I love ginger ale, actually the little cans of Canada Dry to be exact.  No baby gingies, but I did find the regular cans in a couple of places.

9.  No Swedish Fish have been found so far on the island.  Many people (especially my Mom) know my love of fishies and I stock up when I am home.  Needless to say, I have eaten more Swedish Fish than humanly necessary in the last 7 months.

I think that is about it for food here, or at least what I can think of right now.  Now I am hungry!!  Be blessed the next time you venture out to the grocery store and all the amazing treats at your fingertips!

In order to budget better, I do want to start shopping more locally.  Pick up trucks are filled to almost overflowing with all sorts of fruits and veggies and other staples like eggs and sometimes chickens and drive through the streets blasting the specials of the day over a loud speaker.  Pretty cool that the food comes right to you!!  And there are stands all over where you can buy produce.  I need to do this more.  When we have in the past, I can't believe how reasonable avocados, tomatoes, bananas and apples are at these stands vs. Ole or the stores in the capital.  I also would rather support my neighbors than the big corporations.  I have learned a lot about how to make food last a long time from my friend Noemi by spending some time in the kitchen with her.  Number one we eat a LOT compared to them.  One night she made chicken for the 4 of us and herself and her husband and the amount she made for all of us was about what Mike would usually eat himself.  They counter this by eating a lot of rice with a little meat.  I still have a lot to learn!  One day I would love to have chickens and fresh eggs....oh to dream!

In His Grip,
Jodi



Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Printing on the Go

So here in the DR people don't have photographs of themselves.  Grace had a project in her class and she had to bring in a picture of our family.  I had one...well a lot of them.  When we were working on the project on "See Your Class" day there were many children that were decorating their frames with no pictures.  Of course this was very sad to me.  Looking back I see where God revealed my gift of photography to me at such a time that I could prepare for days like yesterday.


What you see here is a printer and a cool coffee cup looking adapter that allows me to run this printer from our truck while on site where we are doing ministry.  The pictures print a little slow.  First cyan, then magenta, then yellow, than black.  But the results are amazing!  They are waterproof...which will come in handy.  Best of all they put smiles on kids faces and they run home to show their Mom who may not even have a picture of their child.  This really makes my heart happy!!



So here is Guapo....my new friend.  I asked him his name and the other kids imitated him by making some mumbling sounds and I caught on quick that he can't speak.  He has the sweetest smile and I just fell in love with him.  I took a few pictures but was not prepared to go full tilt with the printer just yet.  Also seeing what happens when you give things to these kids, I realized that a riot could break loose.  Not violent, but excited kids that anxiously wanted what I had to give.

I heard a whisper from the Holy Spirit that said "Do it for Guapo, make him feel extra special today".  So I called him over to the truck and presented him with his picture and the smile he flashed back made my day!  The other kids wanted pictures and I told them "Only Guapo today because he is special".  I am sure when I go back today that they are going to want pictures, so I need a game plan on how I will handle it.  Maybe lock myself in the truck with the AC on and roll the window down just a little to hand them out...LOL!

So today I get to use my gift again, not to make money, but to glorify God by blessing someone with my gift.  What is your gift?  How can you use it to glorify God?  If you don't know it, maybe you need to look into it more.  Your local church may have classes on finding your spirtual gift.  God gave it to you for a purpose and He doesn't like it when we don't use our gifts :)

Be a blessing today,

Jodi